Your wedding should be a day about you and your partner. Letting others get too involved in the planning process (even if they are paying for it) will only result in a day that doesn’t reflect the two of you. This article has ideas on how you can make your wedding your own, and keep an eye on the budget at the same time.
A wedding is a very special occasion that takes a lot of planning. To have a perfect wedding you need to do your research. Start by talking to other family members that have taken this step and find yourself a decent wedding planner if you require more help. You can have a beautiful wedding, and you can also just go to the court house if you want a more subtle wedding.
You can practice walking down your aisle days before the actual wedding. This absolutely needs to be done where the event is taking place with the exact footwear you plan on wearing on the big day. This makes sure you’re comfortable during the big day.
If you don’t think your wedding guests will participate in a traditional part of the wedding, then skip it. If no one likes to dance, especially the bride or groom, then don’t force them to. If you’re only having married women in attendance, don’t have a bouquet toss at all.
Spend as much time as you need when writing your wedding vows. Remember you want your soon-to-be spouse to know how much they mean to you. Also, try not to use outside sources when writing your vows–you want to make sure the words are what you feel, not what someone does.
Do not spend a fortune on your honeymoon. Nowadays, there are many websites that can help set you up with a honeymoon package that will save you money. Also, if your wedding is in the summer, you may want to consider putting your honeymoon off until winter, when vacation packages are cheaper.
For an intimate atmosphere that encourages guests to mingle and interact with each other, consider long tables with benches instead of multiple round tables. This helps to create a more natural pattern of communication and invite shared conversations. This arrangement can also cut down on the costs of paying for multiple floral arrangements for each table.
Only invite people to your wedding who matter to you. It isn’t meant to be a show of wealth or reputation. It is a day for you to share with the person you plan on spending the rest of your life with. Keep your list limited to anyone who you would want to see in the photos you’ll be looking at for the rest of your life.
Decorate your wedding with items which represent your hobbies or passions, such as traveling the world. Place cards or invitations can be designed in the style of a bus ticket or postcard. An old-style suitcase can be set open on a table as the backdrop for wedding programs or favors.
If you are the bride of the wedding, be sure to remain humble. While those monster brides may have their own cable series, it isn’t because they are beautiful. It is actually the contrary, as having an ugly attitude can make you to be quite an ugly bride, and those there for you will quickly grow tired of your antics.
There is no way to completely get rid of that stressful feeling from planning a wedding. You can, however, take control making sure that you are getting what you want and your partner wants without offending everyone who is trying to help. Use the advice here to make all of these things a reality.